Contentment, the idiom reference pitiful! The reason, presumably the big guys know that today's awareness of social competition is very strong, positive reference will be a joke, anti-reference may feel worth, or are afraid of digestion can not afford. In this way, a long heritage of vocabulary in a very awkward position, there is the danger of being kicked into limbo! So what exactly is "contented" should advocate, or to overthrow it? We must give it a statement!
"Tao Te Ching" is the source of "contentment", meaning to say enough knowledge would often long-term happiness! It tells people that life is happiness, the pursuit of knowledge is a right path. We are people too literally, whichever is the surface: met, will be happy.And to "meet" to understand, that can be improvised without the awareness of the comparator. Even that one person a time to meet, then you will never meet. So the "contentment" is downright into a mediocre self-comforting excuse. However, because of "contentment" is a long tradition, in reality making progress, the status quo people always like pilfering used as their own philosophy of life, both prevarication resist others!Thus, a very aggressive intent concept Mi wilt, a flicker of life wisdom, philosophy passivation.
Some people say that the ancient meaning of "contentment" is too broad-size-fits-all empty truth! They still like to know to meet, will be happy ". Then it seems to me meaning, it is also an active and enterprising.
Met, it should contain the people to give up the unreasonable desire. While avoiding disadvantages is the nature of all living beings to be happy people the same yearning, is beyond reproach! The problem is that the desire of some people is not the objective conditions allow, or it violates the rights of others. In this sense, if we are on their own conditions and the objective world, social ethics, rational understanding, we have to convince themselves not to farther and farther down the wrong path, we are away from the joy will be getting closer!
Secondly, the meet should not simply experience how much they receive, but should evaluate their pay. Was very appropriate to describe human society is the collective cake, and then the cake. Some people are always complaining that they frown sigh that she was too little, they jealous of how XXX, but asked about their pay, they are speechless! In fact pay absolutely fair and harvest impossible, but society tends to a more equitable is a trend, this trend requires a member to promote. When we complain about social injustice, we should ask ourselves what we have done. When one thing we do not achieve the desired effect, we should find out the reasons to look for ways, and not blindly obsessed with results, you want to know everything does not end.
Experience success, which is a typical meet. Success comes from this comparison is vertical, and horizontal; vertical comparison of the history of personal growth, compared the competition between members of society. When compared at a disadvantage, if the vertical comparison we have made progress, and this is also a success, we need to do is not to blame themselves, to the pros and cons summary of lessons-learned courageously. This is a small satisfaction, savings from our forward momentum.Compared to allow us to clear their own achievements in the position of the groups, if the results the next level, be congratulated! But not proud, we need to strive for greater success. Compared with the longitudinal comparison, like a double-edged sword, as long as we reasonably use, it must allow us to have a happy mood.
The meet is not a static process, it is rational to play, is also an emotion, it has its own ebb and flow of the process. We had a meet, followed by another is not satisfied; this does not meet, does not produce negative emotions, but to forge ahead. Experience to meet, they look forward to greater satisfaction. This spirit is the driving force for development of our civilization. Let everyone do contented!
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