Means that the marriage blessing and happiness, but why marry him and her, but fear it? Desire to get married, and finally got married and his beloved people. Married people have to understand that since then their relationship will be a qualitative change. Do not know how to say, before marriage seems to have a little pre-marital phobia. Infected before marriage phobia, would the future of marriage there is a fear, usually the "Symptoms" is irritable, more anxious temper, love to get angry, some people will be quiet, do not want to talk too much, thereby affecting the working and living. Marriage, how to overcome the phobia before marriage? Allow us to prescribe the right medicine, adopted piecemeal measures:
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One, worried that "Marriage is the graveyard of love."
The fear of reasons: Everyone says "Marriage is the tomb of love", even the love of beauty, into a marriage without passion and sweet, only the endless trivial and trouble. ? Not so much trouble thing if it does not get married, you can enjoy life, enjoy the nourishing love ...
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Weapon: out of the marital phobia, we must first get rid of the fantasy of marriage, not to high expectations and expect not to love everything perfect honeymoon really is sweeter than honey, it should be clearly recognized the birth of new families, it means that the burden of increase, means that both try to duty for a family, do own the responsibility of the husband and wife.
Notice, the honeymoon sweet, willing to endure hardship for the love involved and won each other's dedication, common to create. Requirements of the lovers before marriage is necessary for love to the end of the small family willing to endure hardship involved the determination of the shortcomings of tolerance and understanding lover.
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, Arranged marriages, the husband not know enough about the future
Fear of reasons: many are introduced to get along with a short time, the family urged the hope for an early married. Do not understand each other, the other living habits, and each other's circle of friends, and so lead to premarital fear.
Weapon: both men and women need to constantly strengthen mutual understanding, deepen feelings, this is the most important psychological preparation before marriage. The ready if not fully prepared to complete without the protection of married life happy, even though premarital material to prepare everything that irreparable psychological damage, to maintain the couple sincere loving. We recommend that you or learn more about it over and then consider marriage or premarital long talk time, as much as possible to know each other, may be able to eliminate the fear of the future marriage.
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Three to worry about housework children so much to
Reasons for fear: those are the only child of the family, young parents put me as the apple had never done housework, up to tidy up his hut. But not the same after getting married, to learn to cook laundry, but also mopping floors, cleaning the room, just a few will be able to account for most of the rest time. Really want life to live in the shelter under the shade of the parents, This chores children do not get headaches.
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Weapon: Every woman will become a housewife. Unfortunately, the "Housewives" in China is not a word worthy of pride, because of the housework, flesh and blood it has been the social and men ignored or even despised. We can not let the men and the joke, the experience of household labor tedious and hard work, but the value of housework and any other labor, is a housewife dignity and worth of the Department, must not lightly stroke with. One of the breakthrough of respect for the housework is not only the new version of "Protection of Women Act, is also a fundamental prerequisite for equality between men and women.
Four, worried and mother-in-law do not come together
Reason of fear: the future will be with the father, mother-in-law to live under the same roof, each one's habits exposed, the friction between it is inevitable. His parents can tolerate me? I can have a pleasant stay in this house?
Weapon: I do a good job to adapt to the new life of spiritual preparation. Before marriage should think about various aspects of married life will be a significant change occurs not only live together and love, both parents, brothers, sisters, relatives and friends, to learn to live in harmony with them. Before marriage and even marriage for some time, should create conditions to get to know and be familiar with who should know, in order to avoid marriage due to the many strangers break into their own lives and feel the tension and cause errors, which hurt the feelings of the couple.
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