2012年4月30日星期一

How to pick the right wedding

Select the right wedding wedding atmosphere:
01, if the wedding is relatively grand, you should choose a dress with a veil and trailing; wedding material can choose silk, satin, or fur;
02, if the wedding is held in the spring and summer clothing simple and neat as well;
03, held in autumn and winter, you should consider the use of wool or fur shawls, can keep out the cold, but also demonstrate the elegant. Also note that with gloves. For example, the length to above the elbow gloves suitable to match the low-cut strapless style wedding dress sleeveless style, vest and harness-style wedding dress, short gloves are suitable for combination with short sleeves. And to note that the wear can not be too revealing;
04, held at the home of the wedding or not very spacious hotel, scene of a very small scale, wearing luxurious wedding dress will feel outdated. As long as twelve festive generosity can be selected from the usual clothes, and then of some makeup, both beautiful and affinity;
05, if the wedding scenes of community in between, you do not have to adhere to the formal dress, stylish and beautiful clothes after all, a better choice. Such clothes give people a fresh feeling, and whether it is shuttling between the feasts toast, or stood on the stage for the ceremony, or held the ball, very convenient.
Select the right wedding wedding style
Wedding styles, fabrics and suitable for the wedding of bride characteristics divided into factions: minimalism, romantic, gorgeous camp, elegant camp, the next detail to introduce:
A minimalism:
The minimalist lines often can best express the characteristics of the wearer, how to use simple lines to emphasize their advantages is the minimalism of a university asked. Exquisite tailoring and high-end fabrics minimalism superior to others, it can be very good to reflect the grade and quality of the wedding, the bride to stand out in the crowd. Suitable for independent and a strong sense of girl.
Second, the Romantics:
When it comes to marriage we immediately think of the word "romantic", and how to create a wedding on a natural and romantic style? Hollow lace, embroidered with small floral transparent folds of loose multi-layered skirt, a long drag veil. The perfect embodiment of all romantic style wedding. Suited to the cultural atmosphere of the girl.
Three, gorgeous to send:
Admittedly, ornate style will always be some bright spots, but showing gorgeous I would also like to highlight the noble, so pay attention to with the basic principles of the ornate style. Complicated hand-sewn and layered fantasy skirt, this French palace-style wedding, the bride gorgeous flavor of the rich families a significant demonstrated.
Four elegant faction:
This is the most common of the bride dress dress up properly and then plain raw materials can show the bride the most perfect state.
The selection of suitable wedding fabric wedding:
Fabric of the wedding are the following:
Domestic satin (Suzhou wedding commonly used fabric, thin, light weight, less vertical sense).
Imported thick satin (the most common satin, Taiwan, Hong Bin, satin, heavy fabric, drape, pure color).
Crystal yarn (hard texture, transparency, light weight, thin).
Europe with yarn (very thin and transparent, feel a little stiffness, suitable for the material of the Punta contour).
Chiffon (flexible wire, and thin features, soft touch, light and elegant).
Lace: beautiful design, unique technology, precision machining, design patterns, there is a slight embossed effect, the touch is soft, expensive
Select the right wedding wedding colors:
According to different customer ethnic, geographic, cultural differences, select the red, orange, yellow, blue, cyan, green, dark green, sapphire blue, deep purple, in gray, black, white, beige, gold, silver, etc. color.
There are a variety of wedding colors, the most common: white
Ivory (points of light ivory, dark ivory). Milky white
Champagne (points of light champagne, dark champagne).
According to the wedding accessories - veil the selection of suitable wedding
The veil material mesh yarn. In accordance with the hardness, is divided into hard yarn and soft screen
Hard yarn characteristics: a larger grid, hardness, you can create very Punta effect.
Disadvantages: not enough flowing
Soft screen like most mm, enough and elegant enough to hang along, of course, the price is too high.
Friendly suggestions: the veil is the best with the wedding with custom-made, based on the detailed characteristics of the wedding, or the same color satin, or the same lace, can play a perfect harmonization.
Gloves to pick the right wedding accessories - wedding:
The gloves are the most obscure piece of wedding accessories, and even many brides do not like to wear it, especially the hand-shaped beautiful bride. But since I write to you to say a few.
Gloves in accordance with the style is divided into: the long, in the paragraph and short
In accordance with the style is divided into: whole refers mitts.
In accordance with the fabric is divided into: lace, yarn, satin
The principle of choice of gloves is harmonized with the wedding, regardless of style, material, or color should be in harmony with the wedding with. Through its set off to make your wedding even more perfect.







2012年4月29日星期日

Traditional festival of Madagascar

Vertical flagpole section (le tsangatsaina)
Every five years, north of Antalya Carla that (antakarana) should be held to celebrate the ceremony of the flagpole. With the flag of the Republic and the dynasty a half with the red star flag next to the fluttering in the wind. Select a new flagpole very carefully, because it in the next five years to allow the banner to show color and carry forward the Antalya Carla value. Columns buried to Antalya Karana burial cave underground is very exciting ceremony, ceremony seekers are not to be missed. Flagpole planted land was followed by a ceremony is held in close-owned Australia (mitsio,).


Cut
Similar with some African countries and Madagascar lives an important customs and traditions of the local people was circumcision.
Locals in Madagascar in the tradition of boy circumcision surgery shortly after birth are needed, so that the boy to a man in the future. So, from June to September each year, that is, during the dry season, people born this time, or is no circumcision of baby boy was concentrated together, to perform circumcision ceremonies. This ceremony because it has very important significance, so lively, people singing and dancing to celebrate, big time, even there will be thousands of people to attend.
(Le Fanompoambe)





Bath ceremony. They give boyner (Boina) sakalawaren (Sakalava) remains of the Royal family, including King Andrew amisala (Andriamisara) relics of the shower. These ancestors of some of the teeth and the spine are treated as arbiter between God and man, and worshipped by the people. When these relics from the Holy altar moved out in carefully selected out of the bull's blood bath when lights on a black gun show welcome. These relics must be around seven weeks around a sacred place to be put back in place again. The ceremony program is very careful, especially the dress and hairstyles for women. Even the first step must be to the right foot. Ceremony was June Ma GA (Majunga) maiyalinaliwa-Zalah promise-An Boni (Miarinarivo-Tsararano Ambony) of the altar.
(Le Fitampoha)





Mei Naba (Menabe) sakalawa people have their own shower celebration ceremony. Remains of ancestors from the capital in blue China (Tsiribihina) River on the Bairro (Belo) was moved out of the Holy land after the grass skirt and red head strips people of their transport to ampasy (Ampasy). Celebration ceremony first, dance, sing, and traditional combat performance. For up to a week, ancestors of the relics were placed in a full moon and the Red of the sunset exquisite decorative boxes, accept people's week. They were hung in the white tents arranged under the post. During the entire shower, anyone not allowed to cross the green in the capital xinahe. All ceremonies are subject to traditional practices and rituals in order to ensure smooth until it was "Vallabha (Valabe)". Vallabha is the collective release of exciting moments.
Ancestral human remains from helicopter transported along the blue xinahe in the capital flows go passing Tana (Tana)-Yasusuke Rabbah (Antsirabe)-miandeliwazuo (Miandrivazo)-malaimubangdi (Malaimbandy)-mohongdawa City (Morondava) road, and Santa Maria (Sainte Mary) Terminal, and finally arrives at the ampasy (Ampasy).
Child King (Le Sambatra)






Every seven years, which is the traditional Star Almanac "Friday of the year", Sam aka (Antambahoaka) people gather in mananajiali (Mananjary) celebrated "Sang Bata" fairy King). This Festival is celebrated in this boy born 7 years before the holiday, specific dates were decided by the divisions according to the characteristics of the Moon astrology. On this day, the boys will be served like Kings. Tens of thousands of families from the village have come here to celebrate the 8 days. The entire mananajiali

2012年4月27日星期五

Around the world wedding customs


Italian wedding: advocating unlimited
Italian to implement independent of marriage, engagement, wedding rings, there are many legends. The legend is: ring made of gold, very strong, indicating that the marriage unbreakable, and its round shape, a symbol of marital consummation. Another legend is: ancient, free love, the rich and powerful people are often forced the women to get married, or even abducting. The man robbed the young woman to wear shackles. Evolved over the years, the yoke into engagement or wedding ring. Man to the woman to wear the ring that she has in his possession. This is the origin of the ring.
Italian people are used to set the wedding in the spring and autumn, usually in March, April, July, September, October. Wedding divided into two types, a civil wedding, the other is a church wedding. In either case the need for marriage registration, in accordance with the provisions of the Marriage Law.
Vietnamese wedding: elders marrying

Kang tribe living in northern Vietnam, marriages are arranged by parents or uncle. According to their national customs, the male parents for the first time to give when the girl home to propose marriage the woman with two chickens, a pig and a basket of rice as a gift. Since then, the boy to the woman home to live on for some time, at least two years, more than those of up to 12 years, has been to the woman's parents agreed to his marriage with her daughter. Then, the man again with a gift to relatives, including 50 kg of pork, four chickens, five kilograms of salt, 40 kg of rice, 20 bottles of wine and some money. The woman's parents to daughter to the groom's family, told the groom and his bride's family, what skills and physical health. And then the bride would officially become a member of the husband's family, and change with the surname of her husband.
African wedding: the bride before marriage faded hair

Carlo family in the hinterland of Ethiopia is very poor in material wealth. Carlo family of the woman in order to find a good home, after they reach puberty, to the predecessor and abdomen with a blade and cut out some of the hole, and then a large number of bamboo sticks inserted into the wound, and they show a certain pattern. According to Carlo family of man, to do so, men of great allure. Swahili tribe living in Kenya Rameau. Then, in the bride's body cast after massage after the cocoa butter and take to the bride dress is more beautiful bride married a few days ago, it is necessary in addition to hair, the neck of the body parts of the body hair clean shaven; the perfume of sandalwood; bride's limbs but also in the henna juice immersed a dip, followed by the female relative to her body painted pattern.
Finnish wedding: the bride and groom tied

In Finland, if a person will do the bride or groom is a group of young boy or girl being dragged with a rope stroll in a public place, but also with a mask, disheveled. Early summer is the best season of the Finns held the wedding, these young people are actually friends in the send-off they are about to be married the end of single life, start a new life.

This custom was originally only some urban areas in Finland, very few people understand, but suddenly popular around the 1980s in the last century. From the 70s of last century, the Finns began to abandon the traditional rituals and customs, and this practice continued for some time, Finn began the pursuit of traditional customs and practices to bring the fun.






How the bride and groom seem more appropriate

Almost every wedding, the bride and groom would like the statue decoration, the frequent exchange of guests to take pictures, each couple to stand in full view, walk, sit, and the thought of your moves no one can escape the audience's gaze, is not heart timid? Do not worry, here to teach you some basic etiquette, keeping lingua franca. Sitting carefully listening, chairs .....
Almost every wedding, the bride and groom would like statues stand like, frequently change the guests take pictures, under the watchful eyes of every couple seated stand, walk, and, the thought of you no one can escape the crowd's attention, is not afraid? Don't worry, here to teach you some basic formality, on custody.
  
Sitting position
Listen carefully, to shallow the Chair sat and photograph of a relative, upper body posture most of the key, so if it has a "Ah, finally able to sit down" this line moments would like drag ball cat lumbar, it is difficult to see. Cannot along the, to moments keep tension sense, especially if bride wearing low chest dress, sat in Chair of Center Department, twist with lumbar, so is shoulder width, body slim, wear slender dress, to leg oblique to hangs, can makes leg is slender, groom listless to sat with Shi, pants will automatically up to, show socks, does not elegant, so to special note, sat down Qian, first to about knee Department of pants.
Standing
Naturally straight spine, mutual awareness makes up the "eight" shape, whether to greet guests or take commemorative photos, standing posture is very important, so pay special attention to go up the back stretch sense, head, buttocks and heels in a straight line , the feeling of being lifted upper body, especially when standing spirit, the bride should stand on the groom side rearward about 15 cm, the right hand Kua bridegroom right arm, the position of the two like horoscopes, front camera feel best, the groom light Qu left arm, so that the bride to put your hands in the elbow, should be noted that the bride not pulling the groom's clothes, the people the feeling of timidity.
In addition, the groom should not be straight back to the undue prominence to the abdomen, it does not matter holding the bride, to avoid stepping on the skirt, and do not be too far away. Do not tightly holding the groom's arm, as if afraid he would escape like.
Walking
Compelling admission ceremony
Some bride due to does not habits wear wedding and high heels, may will has stepped on to skirt of accident situation, so dress should not be had long, and correctly of walk way is: with toe light playing with skirt edge, foot end light wipe had ground, slowly forward, strictly to told, bride of eyes should is always open front, as will sight put Yu 10 m Qian, so conducive to photo, but to security purposes, bride of sight can slightly down, but not too had so as not to effect image.
Read the letter
The bride and groom must show full of sincere feelings
At the wedding, the bride and groom in reading aloud to his family, relatives, when friends thank you very seriously, because this is a very serious in the wedding ceremony. Sincere emotions is important. After you have finished writing the letter, I must personally prior practice, so as to avoid bias in the official reading, content should be real, guest, and try to create a loving scene
  
Dress up
Gently grasp the skirt of the dress and quickly turned around
Dress and General clothes different, wanted to only change a points direction is do does not to of, does not drag with skirt to exaggerated attitude turned of put orifices is, turned Shi with and rotating direction instead of hand gently seize skirt edge and skirt pole slightly up to, in wearing long skirt, put with long put yarn Shi, to they hanging in themselves of wrist Shang, moments to fast turned.
Smile
  Filled with happy smiles
  Lips, soft smile and a pair of new guests love to see is the happy smile on his face, a lot of people taking pictures of the smiley face is deliberately out of, take out, smile on his face and no, laughter is fake. Smiley face exercises are: cross with a chopstick in his mouth, lips, look like a smile, keep the lips do not change, the chopsticks out, finished with a smiley face, and repeated practice, practice to laugh not extent of exposed tooth then you're done.
  
  Take a bow
  Elegant bow posture in mind in the heart
  Smile while bending the upper body slightly and nodded greeting
  Frequent bows wedding going on essentials: first, your back straight, over waist lean forward. Second, the bow to be full of emotions, bent to about 15 degrees, two people to meet, not to "break out". To maintain a one second pause, to marry persons bowed in music must not forget when the entire body is on him. Careful not to highlight his chin, nods salute or bent over was not only elegant, note that bows don't look up to see one.
Change ring
  The most romantic scene
   "Nervous, even wearing a ring will not go! "Has this embarrassing of experience of people may wish to prior more practiced times, bride help groom wearing ring Shi, groom bent elbow, to hand stretch to natural bent of height, bride with left supporting groom of hand, right hand of thumb, index finger and refers to holding ring, wearing into groom of ring finger, usually, in wearing does not up Shi, bride will does not consciously to exaggerated up, tightly seize he of hand, put to themselves of nose carefully will ring to he ring finger fall into a trap, actually this posture is impetuousness, took out of photos out does not nice.
  
  A toast to
  Light toast, Cup in side note
First of all, when the toast, the bride should take off gloves, put on the table, glasses should be end to the chest, with a toast with gratitude glasses on a slightly inclined, however, should not let the wine before your face, take pictures from all angles are OK. If two people far from the Chair, you can stand to get a little bit closer, deliberately made "eight-shaped" stand, so that the overall look beautiful, also, when glass, where you want to arrange the fingers, listening to others speak, stable support on the left hand bottom of the Cup.





2012年4月25日星期三

This is love

Friends say she's getting married, because two people get together to buy a House to catch; friend because life was too boring to a child, so I want to get married; friend married right now doing boring summer vacation; there are good friends said the other conditions, like this, get married ... ... In many cases, reasons for marriage is so far-fetched, his ideas or the condition of each other to the final end of the marriage, rather than ideological attachment, the deepest place of ... ... Already for a long time, I have heard people say that he is getting married because love is the love of a man and want to be with her forever, it's somewhat sad. Because love is the love of a man for marriage, this sentence, I've never heard. Of a girl, put oneself under the patronage of a higher-up, negotiating conditions, on the family, and married giants, because life makes people become real, still has no true love in this world. So, if it's not really love love her (him), if you can't do either rich or diseases of poverty are the Moonbeam shines my faithful, so marriage should do it.
Dang I in 28 age also is single of when, not only I of parents worry I of marriage events, on even I of students also began to I describes object has, and members met of first sentence words is asked recently how has, dang heard I also is lonely of when, most people will said also of Word: "is requirements too high has", began I also will explained said I to of is love, is found to let I feel can entrusted life of people, "on a a people no attachment of feel, but he on you is good, conditions also good, So, will you marry him? "But every time I answer always despised, probably no one can now understand there's no one to pursue this love, and then later, my answer is a wry smile.
Dang I in Buddha before prayer of when, dang I first times heard legend under this first song of when, I think I will encountered can practice child of hand of that people has, I feel to has, he in I side; Dang I first times saw he of when, despite he of mean and carefully let I sad, but I feel I may to and this people had life has; Dang I and he experience has many things Hou, he of humor he of stable he of efforts together with he of bad habits, let I think he is worth I entrusted life of people. Now think about it, then I'm happy and lucky, found him as a legend, that is what I have been feeling things, after all, for me, finally, boring days are relying on, go sight-seeing shadow people accompanied, and delicious meals, this is a happy thing.
And dependent people in love are keeping each other warm, you can see each other every day, even if you do nothing, just quietly to feel each other's existence, knowing he will always be by your side to accompany you, hurt you, spoil you...... The man when crossing will lead you by the hand, will open an umbrella when it rains as you, when you will comfort you, when you will deceive you with a smile, when you cry will hold you tight in my arms and said, baby, you and me, I've been here for sth If one day someone asked me to marry him, not because of how much can you give me the actual interests of the marriage itself, but because of the significance of marriage in my life, I hope that at that moment he could give me a reason, with me telling me he wanted to be together, spend the remaining years of life together. This pursuit is what I love about it.
And dependent people in love are keeping each other warm, you can see each other every day, even if you do nothing, just quietly to feel each other's existence, knowing he will always be by your side to accompany you, hurt you, spoil you...... The man when crossing will lead you by the hand, will open an umbrella when it rains as you, when you will comfort you, when you will deceive you with a smile, when you cry will hold you tight in my arms and said, baby, you and me, I've been here for sth If one day someone asked me to marry him, not because of how much can you give me the actual interests of the marriage itself, but because of the significance of marriage in my life, I hope that at that moment he could give me a reason, with me telling me he wanted to be together, spend the remaining years of life together. This pursuit is what I love about it.
I seek love, pure, pure selfless of selfish and have no social pollution, because I know my eyes into the sand, regardless of any justification or excuse. Don't total said I vexatious, in he reprimanded I of when please first wanted to wanted to themselves do has what, initial contacts of when, I on said I hope can full believe he by said of each sentence words, but he of lies too more vulnerability, let I easily on can see through, all of these on he, and no inappropriate, but is once and once of hurt has I, I began became neural mass has, I fear see he of computer fear heard he of phone ring fear see he of journal fear see I does not should see of things, Face the challenge repeatedly the bottom line for me he, I compromised again and again, and finally I collapsed like a madman in the outbreak again and again. Attachment if the poison, injuries should be the most deeply yourself, this is called the stew.
Dear, dear to pay Green, to love yourself, to take to protect themselves, if I am not someone else's pride, I'll do my own pride, conceited When did you become the only tears of a coward, do not let love you become more vulnerable you that pay green? ! Dear, dear to pay Green, efforts to better love themselves, to better protect themselves.





2012年4月24日星期二

Suffering stray into the fable

Saying well said: "since ancient times heroes many tribulations; little silk trousers Vita-Male. "People do not know, because when when adversity comes, people will naturally produce resilience, and potential to play beyond suffering, why" in disguise "said. Suffering is also an asset.
Always a difficult experience, so to who. Many memories are in the ups and downs of their classic, that for so long we don't have the heart to abandon it. Recall is a process, just look at that moment, how those difficult months and years to come out, have a piece of sky. Downs was a dilemma, experience becomes a misery. View the hardship and suffering are completely different. Life is made up of many micro-elements, of which the most important is the heart of awareness, that is, a sense of life. High life consciousness of people, no matter what will always grow as life, transformation of the mind.
Now you are unhappy, stress, frustration and suffering is your wealth! People often say that suffering is the best University. Ancient and modern, where events, many of which are suffering from coming in. In adversity, we will be subjected to various tests and temper, be tempered into steel, the will and ability of our extraordinary. Adversity is not terrible, terrible is that you look at it as outcomes rather than processes.
In March 1930, the chill of the season, United States State of Tennessee on a street, a more than 40 year old middle age, are struggling on the brink of starvation.
Prior to that, he was a good salesman, ever been to Tennessee's countless shops selling goods, his marketing strategy has brought about great business opportunities and profit for them, but the good times do not last long, bad fortunes, road to ruin his marketing.
Now, he is alone, penniless, he had wanted to go and find those they have helped people, but they must be rejected, they were unable to accept his poverty. After all, not yesterday 's, the fickleness of the world, that is right.
Just when he is cornered, he found a small restaurant outside of the recruitment advertisements, they are here to recruit chefs, but salaries were pitifully low, a years wages than their more than a month before, in the face of hunger and cold, he abandoned the idea of ideals and arrogance, he pushed it behind door, begin a new life.
His task was to cook chicken, which is that he has never done before, but it is also very simple to do, he only need to follow someone else's ingredients into chicken cooked in the Pan, and then make it fishing, the whole process is so simple.
And the three people with him, they were too lazy to death, to see all people, will intensify their efforts to the work of all his, he would attack, but thought that they had just come, they should do more, to hard to swallow.
Several processes, he has mastered the entire process of chicken, he felt that such an approach is in question, he had tasted in this way make a chicken, no smell, it led directly to this business is pale.
He boss recommendations made should improve the recipe, add some spices or other ingredients, the boss didn't go in and tell him: your job is to make chicken nuggets, these are not you consider, not intrusive, but I here a secret recipe handed down from generation to generation, not wrong.
His kindness for a name-calling, his anger was to go off, but a thought was probably kept him down, lingguang moment, he seems to have found a road of struggle of their own.
At work, he used others resting time to delve in the kitchen and try to add some other spices on the chicken.
Day, he inadvertently will a chicken leg fell into has is heating of oil in, is was tension, because boss said oil is does not to just waste of, once found is is fine or buckle off wage, thanks to no people found, he quickly took out has chicken block, but threw has unfortunately, he will will it threw into mouth in, a miracle appears has, he feel inadvertently fried out of chicken block fragrant spicy delicious, he think success in to themselves waved.
After countless times of development, in June of 1932, in his home, not far from the Tennessee Kentucky State, the middle age has introduced a new kind of fast food – fried chicken, very soon, this food adapted to the fast efficient way, opened less than a year, its reputation has spread throughout the entire Kentucky State.
In order to increase the business area, the young man expanded the business channel, he will be like bread and fried chicken for all fused together, not only to meet the needs of people like dessert, but also adjustment of the interest, well, really two birds with one stone.
Now, KFC has more than 80 countries all over the world, now has more than 9,600 stores, on planet Earth, almost every day there is a Kentucky Fried chicken restaurant opened.
The middle-aged man, is Colonel Sanders, founder of KFC, said they late to success, he said only one sentence: I believe that suffering, because the suffering is a wide berth for all tastes, but I like slowly tasting it in the bread.
Suffering is a mill is still an accomplishment for people who are adept at using. Where you can get a lot of, like such kind of see and realize the truth or philosophic theory of life, required little reflection. Essentially life is essentially a road, every person has a unique way, understand from meditation is also a taste known as successful. Many distinguished persons is so out, writer, not to mention. It was so we have some excellent at all times, "home".
What is the same, and in early life was full of suffering. Society there is no suffering experienced and successful people, but they were lucky. Luck is not a connotation, is a special opportunity. On the same platform, these people than the suffering experienced and successful people, less a lot. No awareness of living life, perhaps, but not very deep. With influential figures are on life in general have a deep enough understanding of life, gives of this is suffering, should be.
This shows that really provoke encouraging only suffering!
Life does not matter, life without prayer. Casual living extremely optimistic, no prayer life extremely pessimistic. Optimistic and pessimistic cannot disorder, a full life has a certain proportion of the two. Successful life of optimism and pessimism are not exclusive and gorgeous charm of life so that we could. We often only see their appearance, sometimes there is pessimism prevailed, to the day you think you have enough capacity to make their own optimistic, again restored the original natural. Life from birth to success is such a metamorphosis, however changing the lives of more attractive, more vibrant. As you know, experienced, what to pursue, what not to pursue, what the treasure, what should give up, is already very clear.
Suffering is a treasure, is a test for the life. Can anyone treat suffering, so to be able to endure hardship, beyond suffering, and ultimately became the envy of success.
Stray into fable suffering!

2012年4月23日星期一

What are the criteria of your love

I was thinking, if Prince Charles is just an ordinary man, this 19-year old Diana would be in the case of knowing he had loved to marry him? Diana in a public video, she used to say that wedding that day: "my heart is like dead calm, I felt like a lamb to be slaughtered. "
She can in fact is not so poor, nobody has put her on a chopping board, is her own: if she refuses to, who also forced her to stand in the Church for a man said: "I do". But you can blame her? Diana can't tell difference between love or love the man that Crown, but then she actually is a lot of opportunity: but when their marriage exists in name only, she can choose to divorce, but she has been reluctant to, still retained the title of Princess of stubbornness. She may think it already pay for that title is too much, so she is not losing this honor.
Don't blame the women's attitude to love, in addition to seven fairy, there are very few women will fall in love with Dong Yong sell oneself into slavery. But for ordinary women, and we look forward to get added value from love, women are often said to myself and did it better than marrying well, of course it is better to marry a good man like yourself, just not so expensive things in the world. Beautiful Diana cannot, let alone someone else? Should a woman start to clear, is the love of a man, was also provided to love a person's life is very difficult. Often hear talked about what kind of man can marry a woman cannot marry, they tend to leave the mouth says, those who do not succeed without men of means is not married, they lack the rich style and heart, women themselves are not, in this reality can have several women on the fame and fortune says: "no big deal! "
When the young and innocent, often do not understand why rich woman is unfaithful: feudal society in particular. Was once discovered will be settling pond of death, but why women are risking their lives to do such things?
This does exist in the world of pure love, life and death is what makes Romeo and Juliet together? What made the Duke of Windsor abandoned land and the throne? Really they are naive or impulse? I do not believe: love is an irreplaceable feelings, in addition to and be with someone you love, or you cannot feel love and happiness. But love the added value can be replaced by: If you want to be able to gain wealth through love, then get wealth while you don't think you'll need and provider of wealth together, especially if you grew up in time, and established his Kingdom of wealth, you can no longer put up with the initial wealth provides you with that man.
Worthy of pursuit in the world there are many things, but only love, is you must love to taste the taste of it: may be sweets and bitters, and other things, you have many ways to get it, and do not have to pass and can only marry a person, so why do people give their love to set up such a high threshold it? I fear that not you love that is too high, but the threshold I was worried about you you people are nothing to do with love of the people: true love does not require threshold, love is RESONANCE BETWEEN TWO LOVERS, consensual, but not in the free market to pick tomatoes, not to find the most cost-effective and reasonable.
Most ask one between lovers, is probably what you love me? Wealth never say I love you, I love your family business, life of love you can offer me, and why? Because we all know it's lousy. So far, I hear the answer is one of the most beautiful words in English: I love you not because who you are,but because of the love when I love with you.
True feelings of love to pay the most exciting, love you love you love you?
Love is never right and wrong in the world, only love and not love.

2012年4月22日星期日

Do not let the future you hate now

I believe that people give their own life plan, at least five-year Heard a story, want to be after five years what kind of person, then backwards in the number of 365 * 5, every day to do what things. Of course, I try to do so, in those days planned, I must sit at the computer to write something, or see only the page but the books of the brain; or to do some things very meaningless but utilitarian and purpose ; or to set up some kind of interpersonal pretend Gongchoujiaocuo.
After I reached a certain purpose, I found that many people worship on the surface, there are a lot of envy, but I missed a lot of things, and forget their dreams, loss of warmth to the hearts, to give up my boy children.
I do not like the years 2006-2008, that mechanical.
Since then, I no longer what five-year life planning a three-year career planning such things, and often asked, that he did not know, but always said, "You do not want to speak, who will his own grand plan tell others? not to mention you are so smart people. "
In fact, I really do not, because I found that in the days of those who do not plan my life is always a variety of unexpected things, such as the birth of this blog, such as Taiwan travel actually first published in Taiwan, and Also signings, such as my second visit to Taiwan is actually the identity of the writer, for example, I do not like so much when a so-called "elite"!
I began to notice that there are many books in the bookstore, the name generally is "something must be done before the age of 25, before the age of 30 must be the places", "40-year-old can not not know the philosophy of life" and so on. These books age and "stressed the affirmative sentences to tell you, if you go to xx years old, will not xxx is not known xxx, have not been to xxx, your life is to keep up with trips, is a failure .
So many people rush like a man in his own life, then at full speed to catch up with the standard answer, revealing the expression haggard and overwhelmed; everyone is afraid they will fall, to catch up with each other than you want the rivalry to a bitter end. This life, everyone will own a particular target, excessive force, thus ignoring the existence of other things in life, this precisely is very easy in life "partial subjects" to become increasingly The uninteresting own.
A few weeks ago, a lot of things, life density suddenly increases a lot, although still sleeping nine hours a day unshakeable, but mind obviously nervous and quick to become mentally ill. At that time, I met a Taiwanese chef, he is my readers, but live in the mainland. He is a happy cook into a chef's fat from a lawyer, one likes to cook their own food to do the same fine restaurant hog. We talked for a long time, he almost flicker I went to the South to learn how to cook with him, later to become my Huyou him to teach me French meal. I share the news to my friends, so to hear a lot of achieving the same reaction:
You want to flash marriage?
Learn to cook and your work have anything to do? If you do not learn this what if there is a school?
You do not hurry to make money to buy a house to buy a car, real life you intend to rent an apartment in Beijing?
Chef allows you to change money? Married looking for a house to buy a car you do not worry, ah? Good work to save money now!
Only cook every day in particular, the patient told me eggs, hot melt and foam, or Where can I buy cheap and a good pot.
I went back to think about why things must be planned with a purpose to do, so why not a whim, why not start at any time, why must what age do matter in what age.
If this is the case, that our hearts are what used? The classic article love to read the text http://www.aiduwen.com
I remember that planned a day, go home at night facing the plan to a done things crossed out, not to do things annoyed pedal Dayton chest, with a sense of guilt to go to bed in the morning headache up the brain do not want to get up, afraid to face the mechanical work on the new one memorandum. Done, I do not remember to do anything, are mechanical completion.
In those days, I do not remember his own life how traces.
I found that the change is probably in the blogging every day occurrence of different things, meet different people see different voices, I started to not be able to plan and arrange their own a lot of things, like next week's Taiwan signings will, I am nervous, I worry that I have a lot of things not ready, but I very enjoy such a thing burst into my life. It disrupted my life, but also gave the ripples of my life, my heart continues to learn to carry sudden, rather than step-by-step gingerly over the conformist life in the event of change will be afraid to worry that I do not know the measures.
I like the heart is brave, strong, but also kindness and warmth of my own.
This is using the past two years, I re-discover and shape my own, I may be to forgo the many should have been a lot of love in my plan, but I began to like this myself.
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Tm's life advice to go to the inspirational saying tm to tm Grow Rich, to the life philosophy of the tm to tm life skills to the workplace Collection tm to tm's Chicken Soup, go tm beyond the future go to the wisdom Cihai tm to tm the art of living ... alive you would have a unique simple and happy because of these liars lie becomes boring and vulgar comparisons boring.
Do not let the future you hate now
I'm trying to become like their own.
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2012年4月21日星期六

One explanation of love

What is love?
An elf sitting green foliage meditation.
Wind Ruoyouruowu.
A bird flying over, stopped at the branch, and mature rice paddies to be looking away.
Wizard to remove a bunch of yellow rice and asked: "Do you love this rice?"
"Love."
"Why?"
"It's driven my hunger."
End of birds pecking rice, gently comb smooth feathers.
"You love this rice?" Wizard took out a bunch of yellow rice.
The bird looked up and looking at the distant Bay spring water answered: "Now I love to which Bay spring, I am a little thirsty."
The wizard took off a leaf, which Sheng Wang spring.
Birds drinking spring water, ready to fly wings.
"Please answer me a question," the wizard to his fingertips, the birds stop in the above.
"You have to do anything more important things? I also rice also have a spring."
"I'm going to patch of open hyacinth in the valley, to see the flower hyacinth.
"Why? It can drive away your hunger?"
"Can not."
"It can moisturize your thirsty?"
"Can not."
"Why do you see it?"
"I need it."
"Why do we need?"
"I love it."
"Why do you love it?"
Day and night to think about it. "
"Why miss it?"
"I love it."
The genie was silent for a moment, the next question:
"Why do you only love a hyacinth? Countless flowers hyacinth in the valley."
"Because it is the only one ah."
"Why? And all other hyacinth different?"
"Yes."
"Where?"
"Only it is I love that one."
The wizard suddenly laughed gently, the bird flapped away.