Do not let the future you hate now

I believe that people give their own life plan, at least five-year Heard a story, want to be after five years what kind of person, then backwards in the number of 365 * 5, every day to do what things. Of course, I try to do so, in those days planned, I must sit at the computer to write something, or see only the page but the books of the brain; or to do some things very meaningless but utilitarian and purpose ; or to set up some kind of interpersonal pretend Gongchoujiaocuo.
After I reached a certain purpose, I found that many people worship on the surface, there are a lot of envy, but I missed a lot of things, and forget their dreams, loss of warmth to the hearts, to give up my boy children.
I do not like the years 2006-2008, that mechanical.
Since then, I no longer what five-year life planning a three-year career planning such things, and often asked, that he did not know, but always said, "You do not want to speak, who will his own grand plan tell others? not to mention you are so smart people. "
In fact, I really do not, because I found that in the days of those who do not plan my life is always a variety of unexpected things, such as the birth of this blog, such as Taiwan travel actually first published in Taiwan, and Also signings, such as my second visit to Taiwan is actually the identity of the writer, for example, I do not like so much when a so-called "elite"!
I began to notice that there are many books in the bookstore, the name generally is "something must be done before the age of 25, before the age of 30 must be the places", "40-year-old can not not know the philosophy of life" and so on. These books age and "stressed the affirmative sentences to tell you, if you go to xx years old, will not xxx is not known xxx, have not been to xxx, your life is to keep up with trips, is a failure .
So many people rush like a man in his own life, then at full speed to catch up with the standard answer, revealing the expression haggard and overwhelmed; everyone is afraid they will fall, to catch up with each other than you want the rivalry to a bitter end. This life, everyone will own a particular target, excessive force, thus ignoring the existence of other things in life, this precisely is very easy in life "partial subjects" to become increasingly The uninteresting own.
A few weeks ago, a lot of things, life density suddenly increases a lot, although still sleeping nine hours a day unshakeable, but mind obviously nervous and quick to become mentally ill. At that time, I met a Taiwanese chef, he is my readers, but live in the mainland. He is a happy cook into a chef's fat from a lawyer, one likes to cook their own food to do the same fine restaurant hog. We talked for a long time, he almost flicker I went to the South to learn how to cook with him, later to become my Huyou him to teach me French meal. I share the news to my friends, so to hear a lot of achieving the same reaction:
You want to flash marriage?
Learn to cook and your work have anything to do? If you do not learn this what if there is a school?
You do not hurry to make money to buy a house to buy a car, real life you intend to rent an apartment in Beijing?
Chef allows you to change money? Married looking for a house to buy a car you do not worry, ah? Good work to save money now!
Only cook every day in particular, the patient told me eggs, hot melt and foam, or Where can I buy cheap and a good pot.
I went back to think about why things must be planned with a purpose to do, so why not a whim, why not start at any time, why must what age do matter in what age.
If this is the case, that our hearts are what used? The classic article love to read the text http://www.aiduwen.com
I remember that planned a day, go home at night facing the plan to a done things crossed out, not to do things annoyed pedal Dayton chest, with a sense of guilt to go to bed in the morning headache up the brain do not want to get up, afraid to face the mechanical work on the new one memorandum. Done, I do not remember to do anything, are mechanical completion.
In those days, I do not remember his own life how traces.
I found that the change is probably in the blogging every day occurrence of different things, meet different people see different voices, I started to not be able to plan and arrange their own a lot of things, like next week's Taiwan signings will, I am nervous, I worry that I have a lot of things not ready, but I very enjoy such a thing burst into my life. It disrupted my life, but also gave the ripples of my life, my heart continues to learn to carry sudden, rather than step-by-step gingerly over the conformist life in the event of change will be afraid to worry that I do not know the measures.
I like the heart is brave, strong, but also kindness and warmth of my own.
This is using the past two years, I re-discover and shape my own, I may be to forgo the many should have been a lot of love in my plan, but I began to like this myself.
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Tm's life advice to go to the inspirational saying tm to tm Grow Rich, to the life philosophy of the tm to tm life skills to the workplace Collection tm to tm's Chicken Soup, go tm beyond the future go to the wisdom Cihai tm to tm the art of living ... alive you would have a unique simple and happy because of these liars lie becomes boring and vulgar comparisons boring.
Do not let the future you hate now
I'm trying to become like their own.
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