Not change things, you can change the mentality

Between people is not much difference between the real difference lies in the mentality of, "Either you go to manage life, or life control you. Your state of mind to decide who is the horse, who is a jockey."
Emotions is human nature, life is always composed of joys and sorrows, we can not control what happened to their own, but we can control their own state of mind. The mind control everyone's actions and thinking, but also determine a person's field of vision, career and achievements.
People live alive, who suffered psychological low ebb and experience life, no one was once depressed, dispirited. Whether the life is what analogy, from the laws of perspective, that everything was spiral-shaped curve forward. Life garden, can not every day a beautiful, spring all the flowers wins Yan autumn depression desolate; summer sun according to hot spot, winter snow Results squid. To life than the moon, the month wanes.
Therefore, the face of life's joys and sorrows, suffered emotional and psychological distress, we should all see it as a normal phenomenon with equanimity, calmly facing.
We can not control their own experience, but we can control their own state of mind. As can not change others, we can change ourselves; can not change things, but we can adjust the attitude.
Heart is difficult, Cheng Lu set the right attitude to make your life more calm and comfortable, of course, the mentality is to rely on your own adaptation, as long as you wish, you can own a proper state of mind ...