What are the criteria of your love

I was thinking, if Prince Charles is just an ordinary man, this 19-year old Diana would be in the case of knowing he had loved to marry him? Diana in a public video, she used to say that wedding that day: "my heart is like dead calm, I felt like a lamb to be slaughtered. "
She can in fact is not so poor, nobody has put her on a chopping board, is her own: if she refuses to, who also forced her to stand in the Church for a man said: "I do". But you can blame her? Diana can't tell difference between love or love the man that Crown, but then she actually is a lot of opportunity: but when their marriage exists in name only, she can choose to divorce, but she has been reluctant to, still retained the title of Princess of stubbornness. She may think it already pay for that title is too much, so she is not losing this honor.
Don't blame the women's attitude to love, in addition to seven fairy, there are very few women will fall in love with Dong Yong sell oneself into slavery. But for ordinary women, and we look forward to get added value from love, women are often said to myself and did it better than marrying well, of course it is better to marry a good man like yourself, just not so expensive things in the world. Beautiful Diana cannot, let alone someone else? Should a woman start to clear, is the love of a man, was also provided to love a person's life is very difficult. Often hear talked about what kind of man can marry a woman cannot marry, they tend to leave the mouth says, those who do not succeed without men of means is not married, they lack the rich style and heart, women themselves are not, in this reality can have several women on the fame and fortune says: "no big deal! "
When the young and innocent, often do not understand why rich woman is unfaithful: feudal society in particular. Was once discovered will be settling pond of death, but why women are risking their lives to do such things?
This does exist in the world of pure love, life and death is what makes Romeo and Juliet together? What made the Duke of Windsor abandoned land and the throne? Really they are naive or impulse? I do not believe: love is an irreplaceable feelings, in addition to and be with someone you love, or you cannot feel love and happiness. But love the added value can be replaced by: If you want to be able to gain wealth through love, then get wealth while you don't think you'll need and provider of wealth together, especially if you grew up in time, and established his Kingdom of wealth, you can no longer put up with the initial wealth provides you with that man.
Worthy of pursuit in the world there are many things, but only love, is you must love to taste the taste of it: may be sweets and bitters, and other things, you have many ways to get it, and do not have to pass and can only marry a person, so why do people give their love to set up such a high threshold it? I fear that not you love that is too high, but the threshold I was worried about you you people are nothing to do with love of the people: true love does not require threshold, love is RESONANCE BETWEEN TWO LOVERS, consensual, but not in the free market to pick tomatoes, not to find the most cost-effective and reasonable.
Most ask one between lovers, is probably what you love me? Wealth never say I love you, I love your family business, life of love you can offer me, and why? Because we all know it's lousy. So far, I hear the answer is one of the most beautiful words in English: I love you not because who you are,but because of the love when I love with you.
True feelings of love to pay the most exciting, love you love you love you?
Love is never right and wrong in the world, only love and not love.

Do not let the future you hate now

I believe that people give their own life plan, at least five-year Heard a story, want to be after five years what kind of person, then backwards in the number of 365 * 5, every day to do what things. Of course, I try to do so, in those days planned, I must sit at the computer to write something, or see only the page but the books of the brain; or to do some things very meaningless but utilitarian and purpose ; or to set up some kind of interpersonal pretend Gongchoujiaocuo.
After I reached a certain purpose, I found that many people worship on the surface, there are a lot of envy, but I missed a lot of things, and forget their dreams, loss of warmth to the hearts, to give up my boy children.
I do not like the years 2006-2008, that mechanical.
Since then, I no longer what five-year life planning a three-year career planning such things, and often asked, that he did not know, but always said, "You do not want to speak, who will his own grand plan tell others? not to mention you are so smart people. "
In fact, I really do not, because I found that in the days of those who do not plan my life is always a variety of unexpected things, such as the birth of this blog, such as Taiwan travel actually first published in Taiwan, and Also signings, such as my second visit to Taiwan is actually the identity of the writer, for example, I do not like so much when a so-called "elite"!
I began to notice that there are many books in the bookstore, the name generally is "something must be done before the age of 25, before the age of 30 must be the places", "40-year-old can not not know the philosophy of life" and so on. These books age and "stressed the affirmative sentences to tell you, if you go to xx years old, will not xxx is not known xxx, have not been to xxx, your life is to keep up with trips, is a failure .
So many people rush like a man in his own life, then at full speed to catch up with the standard answer, revealing the expression haggard and overwhelmed; everyone is afraid they will fall, to catch up with each other than you want the rivalry to a bitter end. This life, everyone will own a particular target, excessive force, thus ignoring the existence of other things in life, this precisely is very easy in life "partial subjects" to become increasingly The uninteresting own.
A few weeks ago, a lot of things, life density suddenly increases a lot, although still sleeping nine hours a day unshakeable, but mind obviously nervous and quick to become mentally ill. At that time, I met a Taiwanese chef, he is my readers, but live in the mainland. He is a happy cook into a chef's fat from a lawyer, one likes to cook their own food to do the same fine restaurant hog. We talked for a long time, he almost flicker I went to the South to learn how to cook with him, later to become my Huyou him to teach me French meal. I share the news to my friends, so to hear a lot of achieving the same reaction:
You want to flash marriage?
Learn to cook and your work have anything to do? If you do not learn this what if there is a school?
You do not hurry to make money to buy a house to buy a car, real life you intend to rent an apartment in Beijing?
Chef allows you to change money? Married looking for a house to buy a car you do not worry, ah? Good work to save money now!
Only cook every day in particular, the patient told me eggs, hot melt and foam, or Where can I buy cheap and a good pot.
I went back to think about why things must be planned with a purpose to do, so why not a whim, why not start at any time, why must what age do matter in what age.
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I remember that planned a day, go home at night facing the plan to a done things crossed out, not to do things annoyed pedal Dayton chest, with a sense of guilt to go to bed in the morning headache up the brain do not want to get up, afraid to face the mechanical work on the new one memorandum. Done, I do not remember to do anything, are mechanical completion.
In those days, I do not remember his own life how traces.
I found that the change is probably in the blogging every day occurrence of different things, meet different people see different voices, I started to not be able to plan and arrange their own a lot of things, like next week's Taiwan signings will, I am nervous, I worry that I have a lot of things not ready, but I very enjoy such a thing burst into my life. It disrupted my life, but also gave the ripples of my life, my heart continues to learn to carry sudden, rather than step-by-step gingerly over the conformist life in the event of change will be afraid to worry that I do not know the measures.
I like the heart is brave, strong, but also kindness and warmth of my own.
This is using the past two years, I re-discover and shape my own, I may be to forgo the many should have been a lot of love in my plan, but I began to like this myself.
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Do not let the future you hate now
I'm trying to become like their own.
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One explanation of love

What is love?
An elf sitting green foliage meditation.
Wind Ruoyouruowu.
A bird flying over, stopped at the branch, and mature rice paddies to be looking away.
Wizard to remove a bunch of yellow rice and asked: "Do you love this rice?"
"Love."
"Why?"
"It's driven my hunger."
End of birds pecking rice, gently comb smooth feathers.
"You love this rice?" Wizard took out a bunch of yellow rice.
The bird looked up and looking at the distant Bay spring water answered: "Now I love to which Bay spring, I am a little thirsty."
The wizard took off a leaf, which Sheng Wang spring.
Birds drinking spring water, ready to fly wings.
"Please answer me a question," the wizard to his fingertips, the birds stop in the above.
"You have to do anything more important things? I also rice also have a spring."
"I'm going to patch of open hyacinth in the valley, to see the flower hyacinth.
"Why? It can drive away your hunger?"
"Can not."
"It can moisturize your thirsty?"
"Can not."
"Why do you see it?"
"I need it."
"Why do we need?"
"I love it."
"Why do you love it?"
Day and night to think about it. "
"Why miss it?"
"I love it."
The genie was silent for a moment, the next question:
"Why do you only love a hyacinth? Countless flowers hyacinth in the valley."
"Because it is the only one ah."
"Why? And all other hyacinth different?"
"Yes."
"Where?"
"Only it is I love that one."
The wizard suddenly laughed gently, the bird flapped away.

The end of the world love

She said softly. To forget that a person in the end how far to go,
I kept walking, thinking that they can calm down on the road.
You love him? I said. No, I do not love him.
I love him that time.
So I chose a vagrant life to forgotten.
But it will very hard, not easy to happiness.
What is happiness? She looked at me with little Tiaonong extension of,
No one can tell I am happy the correct meaning of happiness is only an illusion.
Do not believe in love. Do believe that there is a world somewhere.
Been waiting there. Just do not know when and where to appear.
Always happy and lonely, waiting for him. Perhaps this can lead to a lifetime.
His heart is dead. He said.
When he would like to love a person, he can love.
If you do not want to love, he can not love.
In other words, he can fall in love with anyone.
That is, he can not fall in love with anyone.

I want to go wandering, to find a smiling flower.

I think a year to go to a city.
　　
　　Then, continue to 3.1, but I remember every one of the smiling faces of the city.
　　
　　I would like to, go to where I want to go.
　　
　　Then, look at the beauty of the city itself, infection, I believe that good.
　　
　　I think, one on the back of luggage going to stray.
　　
　　Then, find strong, looking for a xiaomian flower.
I think I will be back on the luggage belt, starting from this moment.
　　
　　Although I do not know what will happen next minute.
　　
　　I want to go to the street, to do good things.
　　
　　With a thankful heart, shuttle to each city and passed through every corner of the world.
　　
　　I think perhaps a personal life alone, but it is also very good.
　　
　　I just want to, looking for a strong, looking for a xiaomian flower.
　　
　　I'm waiting for, give each other a peaceful with each other.
　　
　　I'm waiting, I will implement the stray.
　　
　　I'm waiting, waiting for a time who that.
　　
　　I'm waiting, waiting for a smile as I wanted to spend.

Love the candy colored bags

Candy green, lemon yellow, sapphire blue, and rosy red, bright orange, the most brilliant colors these spring is quietly into our lives. How that girl could not withstand the vibrant candy colors of the sweet charm? The candy-colored bag is both stylish and practical, real top grade out to the streets for the season essential. Here let us together to appreciate the sweet temptation of the candy colored bags HuoSiYan fashion actress interpretation of it!

The horizon distance

Time to follow the fate of the track, before quietly crawl, until an unknown direction. So silly immersed in who do not know what will happen tomorrow Enron mentality, leisurely lives every day.

Looking at your naughty look, I do not think I chose the wrong friends. You are kind, pure and all the little girls have a naughty temperament, but I think you are not the same. In short, anyway, you I are, as always, holding your hand, swaggering through the streets, ignoring the ambiguous vision. Live every day to care about others' eyes like you said, that more than tired, I believe you are the purity of my buddies on line. At that moment my heart did burning the flow through the shock and appreciation of an unknown.
Like your free and easy personality, like a gentleman loved the lotus, lightness finds, was born in the trend of the times rather than be driven by it, I would then clean like you.

The horizon distance seemed close at hand because those fine details, and once in the past, I waited at the location of the heartbeat. It, every second beat. Remind me once that period, good clean day. Perhaps, in a corner of the world you also cherish this a heart.
End of the World, and then being swept, some distance has been produced, which can not be eliminated, but the law of the heartbeat never really can change.